Crying at work is a topic that provokes a wide range of opinions and experiences. Many people see it as acceptable and even necessary at times, though there's still a lingering perception among some that emotional displays are unprofessional or may invite negative judgment.
Personal accounts reveal the reality: some cry after harsh criticism or upsetting news; others feel pressure to hide tears, especially in environments where emotions are seen as weaknesses, and some find support from colleagues who understand the pressures of the job.
Research and expert views suggest that crying at work is more common among women, though men share their experiences, too, sometimes viewing tears as proof of dedication or an emotional investment in their roles.
There's a growing consensus that emotional intelligence is a valuable quality in the workplace. It's becoming more understood that people cannot always separate their feelings from their jobs, and that acknowledging emotions can promote healthier work environments. Supportive management and a culture of understanding lead to more satisfied and effective teams.
Longstanding biases persist, often casting emotional women as unstable and emotional men as weak. These stereotypes can be especially strong for those in leadership roles.
However, when leaders show vulnerability with authenticity, it can foster a sense of trust and care within their teams. Managing tears at work involves allowing time to recover, not feeling ashamed, taking breaks if needed, and for others to acknowledge a coworker's distress with empathy rather than ignoring it.
Source: https://www.foxnews.com/media/okay-cry-work-bbc-breaks-down
So, the question for our readers is: Is It Okay To Cry At Work?
Here are some opinions of some of the McCalmon editorial staff:
Jack McCalmon, Esq.
I have no problem with it. If it becomes disruptive, then that may need to be addressed, but otherwise it is natural. I also do not have a problem with those who will not cry at work because they believe it is unprofessional.
Leslie Zieren, Esq.
I think the answer can depend on all the circumstances – the job duties, the job position, where the crying happening, how often, and for how long.
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